Anna Pulley

Dear Anna, I’ve been dating my boyfriend (36M) for five months, and recently, I found out that he had quite a reputation for sending unsolicited, borderline harassy messages to women...

Dear Anna, I’m a 40-year-old newly divorced career gal, and dipping my toes back into the dating pool after a long marriage. I’m not looking for anything super serious just...

Dear Anna, I’m a 41-year-old woman, just getting back into dating after an eight-year relationship, which ended a little over a year ago. In the past, I’ve spent so much...

Dear Anna, I’m a 27-year-old woman, and my boyfriend (31) has always been passionate about political activism. I admire his dedication to causes like climate change and social justice, but...

Dear Anna, We’re serious — and lately are talking more and more about marriage. But something from my past has been weighing on me, and I’m struggling with whether or...

Dear Anna, are we too isolated, or are we just fine the way we are?

Dear Anna, before moving in, we used to have sex several times a week, but now it’s once a week, or maybe twice if it’s, like, a special occasion.

Dear Anna, I love her deeply, but I’ve noticed that she’s always on her phone — whether we’re watching TV, having dinner or just hanging out in bed.

In a healthy marriage, both partners work together to ensure the other feels loved, respected and secure, writes Anna. That’s not too much to ask.